According to reports, the Duchess of Sussex wanted a tiara that featured emeralds. But the future Duke and Duchess of Sussex were unhappy when told her first choice was impossible, as no one knew exactly where it came from.
Meghan eventually wore a diamond and platinum headpiece chosen by the Queen.
A well-placed royal insider said: “Meghan had her heart set on this tiara with emeralds and Prince Harry hit the roof when they were told it was impossible for her to wear it.
“The provenance of the tiara could not be established. There were concerns it could have come from Russia originally.
“There was a very heated exchange that prompted the Queen to speak to Harry. She said, ‘Meghan cannot have whatever she wants. She gets what tiara she’s given by me’.
“The Queen also questioned why Meghan needed a veil for the wedding, given it was to be her second marriage.
“The message from the Queen was very much Meghan needed to think about how she speaks to staff members and be careful to follow family protocols.”
Meghan has since spoken about how she chose the headband piece, claiming she and Harry visited his grandmother who had picked out the "options."