“We missed Cleo’s first birthday and her first steps,” Sarah-Jane, 30, tells New Idea, as we join the family at their Melbourne home for an exclusive photo shoot.
Even more heartbreaking, when Cleo, now 17 months, uttered “mum” for the first time, it was directed at her grandmother, not Sarah-Jane.
“It was a very real fear for me that she’d forget us, which was heartbreaking,” the social worker says.
Now back home until the auction and enjoying extra-special quality time with their only child, Tom, 34, doesn’t have any regrets.
He adds they have nothing to apologise for.
“It was tough but we have the rest of our lives to spend with Cleo,” he says.
“We just had to keep reminding ourselves why we were there, and that if we win, we are giving our daughter the best possible start in life.”
If they win the prize money, the self-confessed “bogan” couple say it would be “life-changing” and will afford Tom, a hard-working plumber, more time at home.
“I wouldn’t have to work all my weekends and we’d hopefully be able to pay our mortgage,” he says.
The pair, who wed three years ago, haven’t been afraid to call each other out. But Sarah-Jane isn’t worried about viewers seeing them air dirty laundry, calling the playful badgering their “love language”.
“All our friends know we snip at each other, but once it’s said, we’re over it,” she explains.
The high-pressure experience has made them more committed than ever.
“If we can get through this, then we can get through anything,” Tom says.
Sarah-Jane agrees. “I think that having Tom see me show up every day in his world and give it my all has left him with a newfound respect for me.”
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